My Uncle Died This Morning

Well some of you may know my Uncle was diagnosed with inoperable (in my country but not so in the Us at a cost of $250k) liver cancer & was given 6 months to live from just before Xmas. Well those Consultants know their stuff as he died this morning which is about 7months.

Since Xmas though relations between our little branch (my Mam, Dad, Sis & me & 2other aunts) of the family have been non existent due to the other branch of the family comprising of my other Aunt & Uncle & their families poisoning the minds of anyone who'd listen that or branch stole/swindled the money from the sale of our Nana with alzheimers House when she was put in an assisted living facility 2 years before her death early last year.

Rubbish of course; the house was owned by my dad for 25years  & he was technically her landlord but she paid token rent of £150 a month for a 4bed semi (to satisfy the local coucil red tape) & he paid for all upkeep/maintenance/furnishings/electric appliances etc. He did everything for her they did zip. He even did her gardening every week & visited her 3 times a day for the best part of 8 yr once the Alzheimers was diagnosed. Prior to that he would visit the once a day in general. 

However the house rose massively in value over the years so obviously when he sold his own house he invested the money for his own family. Apparently though according to the poisoners everyone was due a share of the mothers house & we stole the money from an elderly old woman. Hardly in wasted rental value alone over the years my dad is still out of pocket. And crucially no one was interested in helping out financially with her when she was alive just my dad. This all came to a head at Xmas so the families been divided.

We were all banned from visiting my uncle when he took real bad during the ladt week & weren't allowed admittance at the private hospital room. When we tried visiting him at home since Xmas he wouldn't answer the front door to us. If accidentally one of his daughters answered the door he'd stay upstairs & refuse to come down. My dad in particular used to be close as me & sis & mam & my Uncle & Aunt & his youngest daughter used to vacation together & share a villa in Florida growing up as kids. It's ridiculous. Needless to say we are banned from the funeral. Dunno what will happen about that one.

Aw, that's awful. I'm so sorry. sending lots of hugs your way ♥

Aw, sorry that happened to you! A similar thing (not to similar but similar none-the-less) happened with my grandmother, she accused my mom of stealing a ring, even though she was giving it to my mother, but she actually hid it and forgot about because of Alzheimer. When she died and my grandfather was going through her things and luckily found the ring and apologized. 

Also, sorry for your lose. I too lost someone, my grandmother, this past month. So if you want to ever talk feel free to message me! *virtual hugs* ♥

Last edited on 2018-07-14 at 08:39:39 by Beacon

Man, that sucks. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. After my grandpa passed away last year there’s also been lots of issues in the family. It’s saddening and stressful. If you ever need to talk to someone I’m here. ♥

My grandma died a couple years ago, so I know how that feels... *sends hugs*

😢 I lost my grandfather just a few months ago and miss him an awful lot! 

I know how you feel about it and I send my condolences!

Thanks guys. I think the whole thing is made much worse by a seemingly endless feud fuelled by sheer greed & jealousy.

Sorry for everyone else's loss also.... I feel its going to be a crappy year in general as both my mam's parents (my other grandparents) are quite poorly too. 

^{My condolences to you and your family. Losing those we love is one of the more difficult parts of life. If you ever need to talk you are more than welcome to message me privately.} 

I'm so sorry *hugs*

hugs a plenty from me too!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for you and your family. 

I am so sorry for your loss. I am also sorry they are acting this way. Unfortunately this happens all too often when someone passes there are some who feel they are obligated to a peice of the pie instead of just pulling together to support and mourn together. Big hugs!

Very sorry to hear about your loss :( Sorry it has come to a point where your family is divided. Perhaps it may be smart to hire a lawyer on your behalf? I mean, it just doesn't seem fair your family isn't even invited to the funeral o_o I am very certain a lawyer would be able to help you and your family. I'm not sure how british law works (I assume? sorry, I thiiink "£" is pounds?) so tbh idk if and how lawers can help, but I really hope they can, because it seems your family has been wrong do-ed :(

I am so sorry for your loss.