Relationship advice?

So, we are now dating, my parents know and all. So, i was texting him but i can't now because i have a really bad grade in Spanish(we'll say below 30). So i am grounded and can't text him X(  But i am slowly working on getting my grade up! 

so my orchestra teacher is selling chocolate to support some filed trip. Anyways, i bought him some chocolate,i also got a piece too. I got caramel and he got milk chocolate. So, i was waiting for him at the doors, and when he got there, i threw the chocolate at him and he didn't see it coming. I hit him in the face XD  and threw the wrong chocolate XD 


I learned a lot about him
he plays basketball
his stepdad has horses :D
he has a sister(not sure if there are more)
his mom is a bus driver
his stepdad is a construction worker

Last edited on 2019-09-18 at 13:36:31 by 🐎Avery's Rescue🐎

If there is one thing that I know from being in a relationship is that Communication is key!! Also getting to know the guy is also very important, and as much as it can be terrifying to talk to a guy he needs to know more about you and you need to learn more about him!

Last edited on 2019-09-14 at 11:52:27 by 𝒯all 𝒪ak 𝒮tables

Thanks, i will definitely use that. Just one problem. I have severe anxiety and, talking to boys just isn't my thing XD I can't even think about him with my heart pounding XD  

I don't in anyway intend to be hurtful with what I am about to say. 


If you hardly know anything about him and can't even talk to him, should you really be in a relationship? If he won't even acknowledge you or your relationship is it even real? I think you need to ask yourself these questions before you commit to anything. 7th grade is young and I can say I regret my Ex's from that time in my life. I needed to mature and learn some things about what I am worth and how to stand up for myself. I think you need to ask yourself these questions and re-evaluate. I just don't want to see you hurt by a misunderstanding. Again I said none of that to be rude, just things for thought. Either way I hope your happy and everything works out ^.^

Last edited on 2019-09-13 at 17:35:04 by BonnieLover

Thanks! I am just very shy, so, yeah. He does kinda acknowledge me in some ways.He smiles at me, ALWAYS staring at me.  

^^^ Everything Bonnie said. If you barely know someone, you probably shouldn't be dating them. I know it's hard, but you're really gonna have to work on getting comfortable talking to him. Relationships don't exist without communication.

I am building up my confidence and have decided to talk to him Monday. I  hope i don't have an asthma attack(sometimes when i get nervous i stop breathing :|  )  so, i have decided i am going to talk. Just need to have a topic to start with and i will be all set! We do both play sports, so i guess i could start with that? But it just seems like a weird topic to start a conversation on. 

Big update!
So, i was way to scared to talk to him. So, my friends dragged me up to him(not exactly near him, at least 50 feet away), so, when i was there, he shot over to the basketball court.

So, today, i gave my friend my mom's number to give to him! He texted me while he was on the bus, but i was at a beta club meeting. He was on his friends phone, and his friend called my mom and said"hey mom!" and my mom was like who did you give my number to!

So, i had to tell her, and she let me text him! After he got home he was on his phone. So we texted for a while, and it turns out his stepdad has horses. He said he rode when he was younger but doesn't any more. Then i told him how i love horses, and you will never guess what he said! He said "you should come over and ride them"! And he wants to meet in the hallway tomorrow at 6th period to talk :D