new ... for 3 days now

ok this was the hardest 3 days of my life ....  had to wait till level 3 to actauly say hi and ask qeustions

 how many horses  should i start off with?? 

Hi and welcome to EV! :) 

The game guides (and the forum of couirse!) helped me a lot when I was new here. 
Game Guides: http://www.equiverse.com/board.php?id=35

I would say it's easiest to have just a few in the beginning. A larger herd comes with bigger costs and when you are just starting up, the economy can be a bit tight if you grow your herd to quickly. 

I'd also make sure you put all your money in the bank before you go to bed each day! The interest helps a lot. Then play the games, and put any extra money back in the bank.

Welcome to Equiverse!