Where is my money?

I sent 13 stud requests to the owner of the stallion I was interested in. This player accepted only 5 of them. There is no notification that he/she denied the other requests, only 5 accepts.

So what now? Where is my money? When they will come back to me? Can I breed the other mares to some other stallion if this player didn't respond to requests at all?

The player will have to deny the other requests in order for you to get your money, or I believe you can cancel them as well. 

You will still be able to breed the mares not in their cooldown cycle, but if you did even if she wanted to accept your requests then she wouldn’t be able too until they where done their cycle. :)

But I don't see any cancel option :(

Hmm, maybe not then. 

I found something like this on Home page, in "View stud requests" at the bottom. I read that there was several bugs about it as well and I'm kinda afraid to use it xD