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#260691 Posted on 2022-09-20 19:52:15
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Posted By 🌴CW Rescue Center🌴 #118033 Member is Offline 595 forum posts Send A Message |
#260694 Posted on 2022-09-20 20:54:11
What on earth? She's expecting you to come to the bridal shower (with a gift!) and not the wedding? That is so weird. I'd decline in a heartbeat.
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Posted By Ж wox #66767 Member is Offline 279 forum posts Send A Message |
#260699 Posted on 2022-09-21 00:43:40
She is rude and insensitive, not to mention tacky. You don't owe an excuse (actually ever!)...just send a polite "not able to attend". She doesn't deserve a moment of your time.
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Posted By PaintItBlonde #125053 Member is Offline 204 forum posts Send A Message |
#260700 Posted on 2022-09-21 07:00:31
@Wox and PaintItBlonde,
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Posted By 🌴CW Rescue Center🌴 #118033 Member is Offline 595 forum posts Send A Message |
#260702 Posted on 2022-09-21 08:58:47
Well, that's an ugly little spot she's put you in, isn't it? I agree you shouldn't attend, and I think you are totally right in not bringing the texts to the groom's attention. He's your friend and you'd then be putting him a similar situation. Good Luck with your decision!
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#260716 Posted on 2022-09-21 16:03:50
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Posted By 🌴CW Rescue Center🌴 #118033 Member is Offline 595 forum posts Send A Message |
#260730 Posted on 2022-09-22 10:26:26
Kindly decline. How rude and tacky of her.
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Posted By Olympea #115391 Member is Offline 2408 forum posts Send A Message |
#260738 Posted on 2022-09-22 16:44:57
I would tell the groom. Wedding stress is not a valid excuse to insult someone the groom is close with. The dude deserves to know who he's marrying. Divorce is nasty, expensive as heck, and a nightmare especially if they did not have any prenups and if they have children. I've seen enough horrors where families and friends knew about the bad side of the fiancee/fiance and didn't warn the bride/groom and it blindsided the bride/groom. It usually led to a miserable marriage and nasty divorce once the fiancee/fiance begins to reveal their true side after the marriage. Don't twist anything and share your opinions, just share the facts. Show him the text evidence and let him make his own decisions. If he chooses to marry her anyways, that's his choice but at least he has a choice.
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Posted By Lucia #132336 Member is Offline 441 forum posts Send A Message |
#260760 Posted on 2022-09-23 08:45:34
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